Etiquette Desk

Situational answers for the moments that actually come up. None of this is a national rule you’ll be tested on. It’s the set of cues that make an encounter go smoothly, written from living in Gwangalli (광안리) and using these places weekly.

Also useful: the glossary for the words behind these situations, the seasonal calendar for timing, and the guides for the full write-ups.

Eating out

Banchan are included, and refillable

The small dishes that land before your food are banchan (반찬). You don’t order them and you don’t pay for them. If a bowl empties and you want more, hold it up or say 더 주세요 (deo juseyo, “more please”). One caveat: at a seafood restaurant, side dishes that are clearly a course rather than a filler are usually not refilled. If you’re unsure, ask rather than assume.

Water and cutlery are usually self-service

Look for a drawer under the edge of your table. Chopsticks and spoons live there. Water is either in a jug on the table or in a dispenser by the wall, and you pour your own. Nobody will bring it, and nobody thinks less of you for getting up.

Use the call button

Many tables have a button that rings at the counter. Press it. Waving or calling across the room is the awkward option here, not the polite one. Where there’s no button, 저기요 (jeogiyo) at normal speaking volume is what everyone uses.

Pay at the counter, and don’t tip

You take the bill to the register on your way out rather than paying at the table. Tipping isn’t practised and leaving money behind can genuinely confuse staff. Cards work almost everywhere, including small places.

Shoes come off only where it’s obvious

If the seating is on a raised wooden floor, there’ll be a shoe rack and other people’s shoes at the step. That’s the signal. Ordinary tables and chairs mean shoes stay on.

Ordering the local dishes

Dwaeji-gukbap (돼지국밥) arrives deliberately under-seasoned. That isn’t an oversight. You season it yourself at the table with salted shrimp (새우젓, saeu-jeot), chilli paste (다대기, dadaegi) and garlic chives, which in Busan are called jeongguji (정구지) rather than the standard buchu (부추). Add a little, taste, add more. Rice may come in the soup (국밥) or in a separate bowl (따로국밥, ttaro-gukbap); both are normal and neither is the tourist version.

Milmyeon (밀면) comes two ways. 물밀면 (mul-milmyeon) is in cold broth; 비빔밀면 (bibim-milmyeon) is mixed with a spicy sauce and no broth. Staff often bring scissors so you can cut the noodles, and using them is expected rather than rude.

Markets and seafood

At Jagalchi (자갈치시장) and the smaller fish halls at Millak (민락), buying downstairs and paying a restaurant upstairs to prepare it is the standard arrangement. The preparation fee is separate from the price of the fish, so agree both before anything is killed. Prices at stalls have some give in them, but hard bargaining reads as rude; asking politely once is enough.

Ask before photographing a vendor or their counter. Most will say yes. Cash is still handy at the smallest stalls even though cards are widely taken.

Jjimjilbang and hot springs

The bathing floors are separated by gender and used without clothing. There is no swimwear option, and this is not negotiable. Wash thoroughly at a seated shower station before you get into any pool. The shared sauna floors, where mixed groups sit together, use the shirt and shorts the front desk gives you.

Two things people are caught out by. Large tattoos are still refused at some facilities, so check before you pay if that affects you. And phones are not allowed in the bathing areas at all, which means you can’t look up a phrase once you’re inside.

Dongnae (동래) is where the hot springs are and the water there is naturally heated. Spa Land in Centum City is the polished, sauna-heavy version. They’re different experiences and both are normal for a first visit.

Temples

Dress so your shoulders and knees are covered, take your hat off inside a hall, and keep your voice down. Step around anyone who is bowing rather than through their line of sight. Photography is generally fine outdoors and often restricted inside the halls, and where it matters there’s a sign. Shoes come off at the door of a hall.

Haedong Yonggungsa in Gijang is at its busiest at sunrise and on Buddha’s Birthday, when it stops being a quiet place entirely. Beomeosa, up on Geumjeongsan, stays calmer.

Beaches

Swimming is supervised only during the official season, which the city sets each year. In 2026 Haeundae and Songjeong opened on 26 June, with Songjeong closing 31 August and Haeundae running to 15 September; Gwangalli, Songdo, Dadaepo, Ilgwang and Imnang ran 1 July to 31 August. Outside those windows there are no lifeguards and swimming is discouraged.

Alcohol rules on the sand have tightened in recent years and vary by beach and by season, so read the signs at the entrance rather than copying what the group next to you is doing. Take your rubbish with you; bins fill fast and there are fewer of them than you’d expect.

Metro, buses and taxis

Priority seats stay empty even on a packed train. Sitting in one when you don’t need it is the single most visible mistake a visitor makes. Keep phone calls short and quiet, and don’t eat on board.

On buses, tap your card getting on and getting off. Skipping the second tap means the system can’t see where you left, and the next journey charges at the maximum. This catches people out constantly.

Taxis are metered, there’s no tipping, and the Kakao T app works with a foreign phone number. Showing the destination written in Korean is more reliable than pronouncing it.

Bins, and where they aren’t

Public bins are genuinely rare. Convenience stores and cafés will take cups and wrappers from things you bought there, and that’s the usual solution. Otherwise you carry it until you’re back at your accommodation, which is what everyone else is doing too.

Talking to people

A slight nod with 안녕하세요 (annyeonghaseyo) covers almost every greeting. 감사합니다 (gamsahamnida) is thank you. 계산해 주세요 (gyesanhae juseyo) asks for the bill.

One thing worth knowing before you take offence at nothing: Busan speech sounds abrupt compared with Seoul. The Gyeongsang dialect is short, the intonation falls hard, and volume runs higher. It reads as brusque to outsiders and it isn’t. Someone being warm to you here may still sound like they’re telling you off.

Where these facts come from

What I did not check: tattoo policies at individual bathhouses, which change without notice, and current alcohol rules beach by beach. Both are worth a look at the entrance sign or a phone call.

Last reviewed: September 2026.